I usually skip the ‘Entertainment’ section when I read my daily newspaper, but this morning, one of the articles accompanying a photo of a rather muscular man wearing only jeans grabbed my eye. As I scanned through the article, I was reminded of an old friend I had completely forgotten about.
This was back when I was still in college, some ten years back. He was my flatmate for seven months only, but I knew everything there was to know about him in the span of those seven months, the reason being that whenever we communicated, it was always him talking and me listening. The day he moved in, he rang my doorbell, and when I opened the door, he had a look of utter disappointment on his face as he looked at me. But he shook my hand, and we introduced ourselves, and the flat, at least, didn’t seem to disappoint him too much.
We share the same first name – Prakash, but he went by the name of Pyro and insisted on calling me ‘Cash’. Every time he called me by this name, I would giggle and say, ‘My name is not Cash,’ but he always ignored my protests. He was very Americanized, though he told me he had never been anywhere abroad. He used words like ‘legit’ and ‘dough’ and ‘rehab’.
Speaking of rehab, that was one of the first things I learnt about him, that he had been there twice (in a rehabilitation centre, I mean). He said the first time was in 2007, when he had been diagnosed as an alcoholic. He said rehab was the best place he had ever been since high school.
‘I didn’t realize until after school was over how shitty life really was,’ he said. ‘And do you know why school was so great? Because we had to go there year after year and meet pretty much the same people. You made friends because you always saw one another. The minute you’re out, it’s every man to his own destination. No one bothers to keep in touch anymore. That’s why rehab was fucking awesome. I made friends because we were all together, we didn’t have a choice but to be. That’s why I went back.’
Pyro said that he relapsed deliberately in 2009. He was depressed and lonely at the time, and he took to drinking again because he wanted to be sent back to rehab.
‘It wasn’t that I liked those people so much. I just liked feeling as though I belonged somewhere, and feeling like I had made friends that actually wanted to see me, even if that wasn’t really the case. Now, they’re all in my phone. There isn’t a single fucking person among my so-called friends who makes the slightest effort to even hear my voice, let alone see me. The typed word is all we have to offer one another’.
I thought of explaining to him that it takes two to make a friendship work, but it seemed to me he had already made up his mind about the nature of people.
Pyro was an aspiring model, which wasn’t surprising by the looks of him. He towered over my puny 5 foot self and flaunted the proverbial six pack abs. He wore t-shirts and jeans that I only know how to describe as ‘tight’. He worked out at the gym every evening and then skipped dinner. He was a non-vegetarian, unlike me, and he ate a dozen eggs everyday, which was the only food he actually cooked at home. Everything else he ate, such as chapatis, raita, and meat dishes, he brought from the nearby restaurant. He also drank copious amounts of milk, which suited me fine because I no longer had to buy milk for my cat, Kali (whom he called Kylie).
Apparently, he had come to Pune to take a course on modelling to prepare him for an upcoming male pageant. He said he used to have a proper 9 to 5 desk job but he had to quit because of his alcoholism, and also because he hated being among ‘idiots’.
‘You may think that’s ironic, considering I entered the modelling world, but you’d be surprised. At least models aren’t trying to impress anyone with their educational degrees and their knowledge of the stock market and what not. They own the fact that they are stupid,’ he would say. I didn’t really understand what he meant by it.
He probably had a family but he never spoke about them. He once mentioned his grandmother but only to express his bizarre fear of photos of deceased people.
‘I see something in their eyes,’ he explained with a shudder, ‘If I see a picture of someone I know who is dead, it will haunt me for weeks. I once saw a picture of my grandmother who had passed away recently, and I kept thinking of where her soul could be because it has to be somewhere, doesn’t it? We can’t just disappear altogether. It freaked me out to think a person can go from living to non-living just like that. I know I’m scum but I would not like to be dead.’
The course he attended lasted three months, after which he re-applied and took the same course again. I didn’t exactly wonder what kinds of things he was being taught in ‘modelling school’, and it didn’t look as though he planned on telling me. He often practised his walking and posing in front of the floor length mirror in the hall. He also did some of his exercises in front of the mirror. I thought he was rather narcissistic at first, but there were times he seemed to be quite the opposite.
He seemed to have the notion that he had an ‘over-large misshapen’ head. No matter how big his muscles got, he thought he could never attain the amount of bulk he needed to disguise the fact that his head was too big for his body. Now, I may wear thick glasses but I could see very clearly that there was nothing wrong with his head, or the size thereof. In fact, he was certainly better looking than any one I had ever seen in person, females included. But he would spend hours looking at his head, placing his palms to either side as though he could squeeze it to the size he wanted it to be. Sometimes, he would experiment with different styles on his hair, and after what seemed like an eternity, say ‘Fuck’ under his breath and throw the comb down in frustration.
He said he never had regular dreams, only nightmares. I never saw him sleep because I went to bed before he did and he woke up before I did. We didn’t eat our meals together either because he thought his non-vegetarian food would offend me. I told him I didn’t mind at all, that I had even tasted a fish finger once (although that was because I was told that it was a potato patty), but he was rather insistent on it. Even though we didn’t actually do anything together, we did spend a lot of time talking. I suppose now that I think of it, I was his only real friend when he was here in Pune, at least for a while. If you went by appearances only, he seemed like the kind of person who flitted from one social circle to the next with his impressive physique and his trendy branded clothes. But he was a very lonely person. His harsh criticisms of everybody he knew belied his desire to have ‘bona fide comfortable friendships’ as he put it.
After his course was over for the second time, he spent most of his time at home preparing for the competition. He read magazines and online articles, and practised walking and flexing in front of the mirror. I told him he ought to feel very confident since he had worked so hard. He replied, ‘I would, so long as the judges can look past this oversized head of mine.’
‘I don’t really give a crap about this pageant,’ he told me. ‘It’s just kind of a stepping stone to what I really want to do. You get a modelling contract, among other things, if you’re one of the winners. Once people start noticing you on ramps and fashion magazines, it’s just a matter of time until a film producer approaches you for a role. First you get the small ones because they don’t know how well you act. But then once they see that you’ve got some real talent, they sign you up for the big movies. I’ll be an actual Bollywood star, and then my vengeance will be complete.’
‘Vengeance?’ I asked timidly.
‘Well, in a manner of speaking. My whole life, I’ve been a fish out of water. There is no place I can go where I can feel I truly belong. And you might say it’s a shortcoming on my part, but I’m 25 years old now, and I have consistently received the same differential treatment everywhere. I’m going to have the last laugh over everyone who has ever been shit to me.’
The night before he left, he ordered pizza. I didn’t have the heart to tell him I didn’t like the taste of pizza since he took the trouble to order a vegetarian pizza especially for me. I had been neck deep in college assignments, and I was quite tired but I stayed up with him since it was his last night. Kali had long since retired to her corner in my bedroom.
‘You know, Cash, you’ve probably been the best roomie I’ve ever had. I’ll miss you,’ he said.
‘Same here,’ I replied, taking a tiny bite of pizza and washing it down with Pepsi.
He had already finished his packing since he was planning on taking an early cab to Mumbai the next day.
‘You pray for me ok,’ he said absently, flipping through one of his magazines. ‘You’re pretty religious right? So pray that I win this thing.’
‘I will. But you should pray too,’ I said smiling.
‘Nah,’ he said. ‘I mean, I believe in God, but I doubt He’ll give a shit about my prayers.’
He was such a strange person. On one hand, he seemed to think so highly of himself that people often fell short of what he expected from them. He was certainly self-centred enough to rate relationships based on how much they listened to him or how they treated him, the focus never being on his treatment of them. I knew that was why he liked my company.
On the other hand, it was as though he was aware of this very nature of his, which was why he had such a low opinion of himself. It didn’t seem to me that attaining fame and success would do him any good. I wished that I could help him but I didn’t know how.
Before I went to bed, we shook hands and I wished him the best of luck, and promised that I would watch the show. He laughed and said, ‘Don’t watch it. It’s just a dumb pageant.’
He was gone the next morning before I was up. It was only after he left that I realized we never exchanged phone numbers.
The article I saw in the newspaper this morning was about the same pageant that Pyro had participated in; they were announcing the audition dates for the year’s competition. I only realized then that I hadn’t bothered to check whether Pyro had succeeded in winning it the year he participated. I did a quick Google search on my phone but didn’t find his name in the list of winners. I then did a search of his name but nothing came up other than Facebook and LinkedIn pages of people who shared the same name. I was sure you could find anyone on the internet if you searched hard enough. Yet, Pyro was nowhere to be found.
It almost made me sad, but then I recalled a conversation we had one Sunday morning as I ate my breakfast and he was responding to some emails with Kali snuggled into a ball on his lap.
‘You know what I’d like, Pyro,’ he told me as he looked up from his computer. ‘I’d like either to become completely famous, or completely anonymous. This state of in-between that all of us are in, and I do mean all of us, this isn’t acceptable to me.’
‘I’m sure you’ll become famous someday’, I replied, not getting his point. ‘You’re already very popular now, I can see that.’
‘No, what I mean is, if I can achieve real fame, not like the kind of self-manufactured fame that’s made possible nowadays, if I can obtain world-wide eminence, I’ll know that I have made it. The other option is that I disappear off the face of the earth, so to speak. No one knows where I am or what I’m doing and they have no way of finding out. That would be a great success too. The only way to fail for me is to carry on being like this.’
‘Like what?’ I asked stupidly.
‘Just another colourless individual trying to stand out,’ he said, typing away on his keyboard absently.
It occurs to me now that Pyro might have actually achieved one of his two major dreams. Maybe he was somewhere far from home, some obscure country where every person he met was equally out of place, where no one knew who he was, where he came from, or what he had done. Completely anonymous.
I may be wrong but perhaps he had been leaning towards the alternative all along.